myowncreationofman said: I’m wondering why you’re considering going off T? I have considered it myself bc of the rapid state of my hair loss after 21 months on T! I started using rogaine and that helped. But yeah I love taking T & I’m not so sure hair loss would make make me stop

I’m not considering going off T, I just have a question for people who have and I haven’t found the answer anywhere. That’s one of the shitty parts of transitioning, possibly losing hair. So far I’ve been lucky but I think my hairline is thinning a bit on the sides, like I think I said to you in a private message the other day. Btw I will respond to that, hopefully tomorrow. I have had some negative changes on T but I figure I got to take the bad with the good (which most of it is) and there are always solutions for my problems, so that’s good. I have found that thinking like that helps me generally throughout my life. 

I remember 1 guy who actually went off testosterone and one of the big reasons was because he started losing his hair, and and he described himself, he is very vain and hair is a big part of his culture. Once he went off testosterone, his hair started coming back, and now he has been off T for about 2 years and it’s back to the way it used to be. But with going off T, you have to accept the female changes that will come back. 

I’m glad that rogaine is working for you! You keep your hair cut pretty short, so if you ever needed a 2nd option, you could get a hair tattoo. To learn more about it, go on my /tagged/balding. I would link you to it, but my fucking PC is being a dick and freezes when I go on that page. So if you decide that your current treatment isn’t your thing, or it doesn’t work as well as you like, know that there are other options.

I have a a personal question for people who have had to go off testosterone, or have decided to stop taking it

This question will only apply to you if you experienced all the expected changes to your genetalia while you were on testosterone. So if you only took testosterone for a month, then went off, you won’t be able to chip in, but if you took T long enough to experience those normal changes, please contact me.

http://theotheropinion.tumblr.com/ask

The messages will strictly stay between us, and you are under no pressure to answer the question if you are uncomfortable with it. I am asking for educational reasons, and I will not be making any judgements, so don’t worry about that.

The other day I saw a black social justice warrior complain about how white people steal everything from black people.

They were talking about how dreadlocks used to be considered dirty and gross, and with white people having dreads now, it’s considered earthy and hippy like, which is meant to be a good thing. I understand where they were coming from there. I didn’t know they were ever considered dirty or gross, but I will take their word for it, so with that, I can understand that there are things that black people have done, then white people have done the same thing, or done something similar, and it’s then people think it’s cool. I can see why that would bug them.

However, they lost me when they said the same applies to twerking. It was stupid when black people did it, but now that white people are doing it, apparently it’s cute. I didn’t really know what twerking was, until I found a video of it being done the other day, and now, I found another one, which reminded me to make this post.

K… no one thinks twerking is cute, whether you’re black or white. I hope no one else is making this stupid claim. Some people just find stuff to complain about.

whats is ur height?i've heard that aussie cis guys average height is like 6ft1...

Where did you hear that? That’s not true. Last time a big survey thing was done, they found that the average was 5’9”, which I’m around.

Most of my friends are short girls which is great because in photos with them I look tall and popular with the ladies.

hello will you hire me. i have no qualifications but im really nice.please

I just asked my sibling what sort of job they think would be good for me while taking my social anxiety into consideration, and they said “Put makeup on dead people. They offer 50 bucks an hour for that, and there’s courses you can do. Your clients will never talk to you.”

Then my mum chipped in and said “if you ever accidentally poke them, it doesn’t matter. They can’t complain.”

Jobs

I’m trying to keep my doors open right now, and I’m exploring a bit.

I need a job that suits my needs. I can’t just go do something super social like work in a department store because I struggle with social anxiety, and I try to avoid being too “seen” here, because occasionally I bump into people who only knew me pre-transition, which is very awkward and can put me in danger.

Keep in mind I live in Australia.

Does anyone have any suggestions please?

Me: You know those people who are so fucking talented at everything...
Mum: And they're always good looking.
Me: it's unfair. Have you heard of this kid *lists name off* Not only is he a brilliant singer, he's also an amazing swimmer, plus he's good looking and has a great body.
Mum: He has no personality. I'm sure he is a turd, alright? Always remembered that darling.
Me: *laughing*
Mum: I know these things

three days on T

fuckinggetthefuckout:

my uterus has shriveled.  I started my period but it was just dust.  I have grown a 4 ft long beard and an epic handlebar mustache.  I already won two body building competitions from muscle growth alone.  I had to have sex 5,000,000 times so far because of the libido increase.  Appetite increase: I’ve eaten 15 cows and 20 pounds of broccoli.

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